Dating

Dating is a very lose term now days.  We decided that it meant to participate in a variety of activities with a variety of people.  There is a proper process people should go through to result in a healthier marriage.  That is first people should date and then if you find one person you want to pursue to take it to courtship and then comes the engagement and then the marriage.  Along with that is the relationship attachment model which has 5 parts that go in order.  First you should know someone, then learn to trust them, then you can rely on them, then commitments can be made, and lastly touch can play a part in the picture.  If you can’t trust someone then you shouldn’t rely on then or commit to them or have physical moments with them.  One step should not come before the other and in our society it seems that physical touch is most out of whack.  People meet one another and soon they are making out and doing more and they don’t even know the person.  This just results in danger and emotional instability.  When it comes to dating we should follow this model.